Miss-Perceptions About Islam

Asslam-O-Alaikum (Peace Be Unto You All) !

My Name is Sajda Kausar. I belong to a Muslim Background. As I am very fond of reading and researching on religious and social stuff. So I have found different perceptions regarding different religions in all over the world. Well, I have come to know that the most criticizing religion is Islam by different communities. There are different reasons but the root cause is "Miss-conception".

•  First and foremost misconception is "Islam is against to Freedom of speech".Well, let me clear it with Quranic References and History as well :Allah has sent 1,24,000 Messengers, Allah gave them authority to speak freely in order to make people liberal. So, how could people say that Islam is against to freedom of speech while Islam is the religion who has been conquered through freedom of speech.
• secondly You are not bound to be a Muslim, As Allah Says in Surah-e-Kafiroon .

"Say, O You Disbeliever !

 I do not worship what You Worship !

 For you is Your Religion !

And For Me is My Religion !"

•  Third and most conservative misconception is that "Islam has bound it's women". Well, Right now Muslims have two most important holy things "Ka'aba & Quraan". Quraan and Kaaba have  always  been covered with a beautiful cover.That is how Islam gave respect to its women. There is no religion on this planet who gave that much respect to their women.Women are not bound to covered their face but they are ordered by Allah to cover their selves in order to make them pure. Neither Islam is against to the Education of women nor against to their career. I am also an Islamic woman , right now I am doing everything which is good for me apart from any bounding.
• Fourth misconception is that "Islam is Against to Love".In this case I can Say "Yes" Islam is against to love. The trend of "Haram Love" that is going to be adopted by people of every community either Muslim or other. Love is not that much easy , Being sexual and physical with each other seems more easy and We are calling it Love. Love has very much significance in Islam and that is not as much easy to do for everyone. Allah has sent Qura'an for our guidance .Allah Doesn't grant permission of "Lust". Allah Says in Surah-e-Noor, Verse No 26:

"And Women of Purity are for the Men of purity,

 And Men of Purity are for the Women of Purity"

On this topic I will write a separate blog for those who wants to know more about Love in Islam.

Well, As far as I am concerned so I am not defending my religion.I am doing what my Islam taught me to speak truth, to take stand for righteous. I am writing what is true. I will definitely defend other religions, Communities and societies as per my knowledge if  there would be any misconception about them. 😊

Selfies: Blessing Or Curse

HellOoOo Everyone !
 Today I am Here with an interesting topic that is About "Selfies" 😎

Well, there is a great conflict about selfies but as per my opinion and I have taken too many opinions from general public and surprisingly I have come to know that 70% people considered it as a curse while they all are those people who are taking selfies on the daily basis. Even I personally used to take selfies but my point is here everything which we love to do is not always a blessing for us.

So now the first question comes in our mind is that why we take selfies?

Just to post it to the social media and get some comments and likes. Actually there is a problem that we have lack of self-satisfaction and self believe that is why we want to seek public attention through social media.

Selfies have spoiled many lives through social media as you all are very well aware people. Basically there is availability of vast number of photo editing software so now its really easy even for a child to edit a beautiful image and make it look incredibly offensive. Infect media has reported many cases in which someone edited a photo especially that of females and post it everywhere just to make their lives stigmatic

And this is the reason girls are attempting suicides especially in Asian countries.

As I belong to Pakistan, So there are many apathetic death cases caused by selfies. It is about two weeks ago in Peshawar an eleven years old girl safia atif was trying to take a selfie in a boat and suddenly she slipped and fell into the river. Alas! She lost her life the more apathetic pretense is that her parents while trying to save her also died. Another death occurred in khanewal near a railway station when a girl was trying to take a selfie in under the train and she crushed to the death.

It sounds too apathetic, then why are you playing with your lives?

It doesn’t matter how you die and when you die the thing that matters alot is how you lived in your life? What have you done in your life?

The emerging trend of selfies has very worst impact on our youth especially if we talk about students whenever they go anywhere their main focus is to capture selfies instead of getting information and seeking knowledge..

Now my point is here that if society says “social sickness”

Psychology says “Addiction”

Wisdom says “Waste of time”

Then how can we consider it as a blessing...!

Happiness

Hello EveryOne !
This is me Sajda Kausar 🙂 I am going to to write my first blog ever, So I would like to share the tips of happiness with you all. Well, it is happiness for me while writing the first ever blog of my life. As I am not a techno girl so I always used to read books and write too. I am feeling happy right now, sharing my little happiness with you people through my words making me feel like "I am Beaming" 😍.
Well, Happiness is the most expensive and rarely found thing in today's advancing era. Everyone is busy in making money or getting fame, Yeah that's sounds cool 😎 but have you ever questioned yourself about your genuine happiness? 🤔. Are you really happy or having peace of mind ? Most probably answers will be "No"😟. Even I was suffering from a mental illness and depression as well. I was just straggled , had no peace of mind. I was struggling as well for my studies, job, fame and money. When I realized that I have to be Happy in order to survive for myself. As we people born alone , died alone then we should not expect from others to make ourselves happy. Broodingly I have come to know the secret of genuine happiness is that I have to find happiness in every little thing.There must be something for you that can make you happy and help you to  forget about what has gone from your life. What you need is to think about "What makes you more happy apart from humans". Probably that will be something from your own self. As I found my happiness in my writings and right now writing my first blog is making me happy.So do whatever you can do for yourself. You are the only One for yourself 😐, You are simply Amazing 😅, You are Beautiful 😍, You are Skillful 😎, You are Maverick 👼..As short as  I want to advice all the happiness seekers " Do not allow the World or humans to control your happiness, Make a world in your own selves"...  🌝